December 2012 - Enjoying that Supercharged Sex Life
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I've always found it interesting for many reasons. As a kid, of course, I was fascinated by the lights, the decorations, the noise, and the presents. Later I began to notice how people changed and I was fascinated by people watching.
Then I began recognizing the differences in belief systems surrounding this time of year. I'm still learning about these and the implications they have for shaping thought, language and history are fascinating. Of course, I learned about the astrological and geographical events that underpin this time of year in school; the Winter Solstice being on the day with the least light and the longest night of the year.
Those of you who have been reading News from the Center for Clarity for a while are familiar with my writings on celebrating the Winter Solstice, renewal or beginning again. I've been very aware of this for several years and have appreciated using it as an excuse to renew relationships through intimate experiences of sharing, touching and appreciating.
I've used the last couple of years of News from the Center for Clarity to review articles on connecting and sexuality in the popular press and put my two cents in. The main article below is the fifth in a series. It offers ideas for ways to use some of the suggestions I've made in the first four articles not only to help you feel like you want to be intimate more often but to get more intimate in the moment. In January we'll move onto a new article to start out the new year.
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Happy Holiday Season!
No Matter What You Call Your Holiday
Or How You Celebrate
May You Find Joy and Peace and
Best Wishes Always,
Wrapping up these Tips for Supercharging Your Sex Life
This month, we're wrapping up our article, Supercharge Your Sex Life: 11 Ways to Get Your Drive into High Gear. If you missed any of the previous articles on tthis, get them here:
To wrap it up, I want to give you some ideas for getting double duty out of the tips. I'll offer ways to not only help you feel like you want to be intimate more often, but to get more intimate in the moment.
Keep your eyes on News from the Center for Clarity all throughout 2013 for more information, tips and suggestions. Relationships can stay arousing and satisfying.
There are no challenges, issues, or crises that do not contain within them seeds of opportunity that could not have otherwise existed.
Relationship and sexual issues are not an exception to the rule.
Answers given to readers' questions, as well as suggestions in the rest of the newsletter News from Center for Clarity, are given as general information. They are not meant to replace face-to-face therapy with a professional person. The reader agrees to hold Center for Clarity/Jenny Friend harmless from any use of the information and suggestions.
"Recently my wife asked me to wear high heels (5" stilettos), a garter belt and nylons, which matched hers when we made love. I found it interesting and we had great sex. It really aroused me and each time we do it I get more aroused. I think I am addicted. Am I crazy"?
Are you crazy for enjoying new kinds of feelings and sensations? No. Novelty in and of itself can heighten the enjoyment of many things. You're not crazy for liking the feel of silk, the freedom of a garter belt or the sense of being elevated and shown off, either.
Are you addicted to this kind of sex? That depends on several things:
A "yes" to all of these certainly implies there's no problem. Enjoy.
A "no" to any of them implies there COULD be a problem of greater or lesser degree now or brewing. In that case, it's time to change something.
Good luck and have fun, Jenny
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